Love or Friendship?


In college, it is common to see friendship among boys and girls. What is difficult is how to deal with personal contacts between different sexes. The key is to differentiate between love and friendship.


Friendship is the basic need of human feehngs. Friendship may lead to love. But love does not certainly come from friendship. Friendship is the foundation of love, No love is true without friendship.


Love is selfish and exclusive, while friendship is selfless and extensive. Love is not necessarily to be returned. But friendship needs a contraet and something in exchange.


I believe there exists pure friendship between sexes. Sometimes the power of frienship surpasses the power of love. There may be misunderstanding and rumors even slanders about heterosexual frienship. In this world there are many inexplieicable things. Actions speak louder than words.
爱情还是友谊?


在大学里，男女之间的友谊是常见的，难的是如何处理不同性别之间的个人接触。其关键是区别爱情与友谊。


友谊是人类感情的基本需要，友谊可能导致爱情，但是爱情不一定都来自友谊。友谊是爱情的基础，真正的爱不能没有友谊。


爱是自私和排他的，而友谊是无私和广泛的。爱不一定要求回报，但友谊需要有契约和交换。


我认为男女之间有纯真的友谊。有时候友谊的力量胜过爱情。异性之间的友谊会产生误解、谣言甚至诬蔑。在这个世界里有很多难以解释的事情，行动胜过语言。