Suppose Fudan is to choose the hottest newsmakers through public appraisal of the past year, two prodigies, Man Zhou and Han Han, will certainly stand beside the celebrities in scientific domain. Still being controversy, however, their appearances in prestigious Fudan challenge the conventional attitudes toward children cultivation.



These two fortune＇s favorites exemplify some talents who successfully make their own decisions and achieve preliminary accomplishments.










There is no skepticism that our society is experiencing a profound reformation. As most sociologists indicate, children are a more sensitive and particular group that deserves intensive attention. People readily witness the construction development while the distinct shifts that children confront are neglected. Decades ago, people usually need not, or to some extent, could not make their own decisions because the so called "Screw Spirit" was adrotated greatly. One has no choice but to conform and adjust to the arrangement. Compared to their predecessors, present freedom and choices are more readily available to children. Almost everything



ranging from education to career, religion to marriage



is up to one＇s own wills. As a consequence, more emphasis should be attached to cultivating children＇s ability to make their own decisions independently. In this way they will adjust
better future＇s fierce competitions.










Given that children should be entitled to make decisions,there emerges another problem



how to make them efficiently.Creativity and talent of children are not new. It is just that their personalities and characteristics are becoming more pronounced.Unfortunately, it frequently happens that one born to be movie star who may probably win Oscar Award someday is excluded in a drama club in school;an innate business elite is dismissed only in the name of violating the rules by selling Christmas cards on campus; a more universal story is that the vast majority of children are merely ordinary people whose requests refer to leading a pacific life. How can parents or teachers impose their values of becoming someone on a child whose propensity is devouring a bestseller during spare time and going to movies with his or her spouse on weekends and refusing to working on additional hours in the unreasonable excuse of a boss. Although one is supposed to exert his utmost in some field, he also possesses the r

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